There comes a time in every girl’s life … when she starts her period.
It’s exciting. It’s also physically and emotionally uncomfortable. It’s just new and different.
I felt kind of vulnerable because I was on the younger end of my peers who “got” her period earlier than most. I felt a little isolated; I didn’t feel more mature, but I guess I was, at least physically…? I don’t know … a whole host of emotions really, which I guess is kind of the point. Hormones and emotions.
Nurses ask when the first day of my last period was. I tell them it was waaaaaaay back when in March 2014. But it was so much more than a period, emotionally. I even call it a “fake” period because it was induced by birth control pill-withdrawal after a two-week menstrual cycle. I barely even bled; my nurses were just trying to sync me up with Mary + intended mommies. I’d been holding up the show, so I did a quick “run-through” before spotting then preparing my lining …
My last “real” period was during Valentine’s Day 2014. I remember it well because I actually bled through my pants and onto my desk chair at work. My [male] boss saw my chair and inquired, but I literally did not think it was actually blood. Surely it couldn’t have been. But it was. And he knew it before I did. Aaaaaand it was pretty mortifying.
So, as I recall the first day of my last cycle in March of last year, I can’t help but acknowledge how much hope my heart held. Even though it had been and was broken, I prayed and begged for it to be THE last period. I so desperately wanted it to mark the end of hopeless and the beginning of my dreams coming true.
And it *did. It was the last period.
Today I got my period.
I went to the ladies’ room while holding Rowan. And then I saw it.
I looked into my baby’s eyes with some tears in mine and said to her, “Rowie, Mommy got her period!”
Today was monumental for reasons I’m still sorting out in my heart …
*Statements like these can never be completely true because of the place in my dreams and heart I hold for Emmanuelle.